The patients we serve in LTC
facilities include: memory care patients, ALF patients, and independent living
patients. Usually, at Thanksgiving the
memory care patients go home for the holiday or the family comes to the
facility to be with their loved one. The
facility provides the meal which his pureed.
In the ALF and independent, we follow the protocols for providing care
for home patients. (see below)
Collaboration between the
Chaplain and Social Worker is the key to serving the patients who will be
alone. Use the IDT for initiating
planning sometime in October and finalize early in November so effort is
focused on the patient and not the plan prior to Thanksgiving.
Patients at Home—(Going the extra mile for them)
For patients still living at
home Thanksgiving can be anything but a happy holiday. The circumstances of the patient and why they
are alone at this holiday come into play in your pastoral care.
v Are they alienated from their family members?
v Are they separated due to distance from family members?
v You probably have broached the subject of family issues
with them. Thanksgiving will bring
emotions to the surface weeks before the actual holiday. Employ listening skills. They are not looking for you to fix
things. Provide the spiritual and
existential support they need. Your
winsome and wise counsel will help them through the emotional pain.
v If they cannot provide a meal for themselves and would be
open to it, collaborate with the Social Worker as they have a concurrent
program to provide meals for patients.
v Provide a card, if possible. Some faith communities make cards for
“shut-ins” and if appropriate ask for as many as needed.
v A phone call on Thanksgiving from you or the on call
Chaplain would provide support.